Saturday, March 8, 2025

Happiness project 2025: 100 days


Loved the positive momentum from this little project of mine that I started 9/12/24

https://charmedandblessed.blogspot.com/2024/09/happiness-project-2024-100-days.html?m=1

I decided to keep this going and start a new batch of 100 + more happy days to bring into 2025.

Will pick up where I left off and take it day by day again.

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Day 1, 12/21/24: Today was what I would describe as our Super Bowl in that the annual collaborative toy drive with Believe Holy Spirit and Eden Youth Center took place.

We served over 500 families today and each child that came through came home ๐Ÿก with a toy of their choosing.

It was a HUGE team and community effort in having so many toys to distribute and so many helping hands with big hearts who gave of their time today and throughout our toy drive events. THANK YOU to everyone who made this event as successful as it was. We appreciate each and every one of you ๐Ÿค—

Struck up a nice friendship with a little girl named Kayley who last year loved ๐Ÿฅฐ my elf ๐Ÿง‍♀️ hat so I gave her mine and bought another one. She came back this year, with her elf hat on and wanted to take a photo together ๐Ÿ˜ Such a sweetheart ๐Ÿ’—

Thank you Councilwoman Angela for supporting and coming out today as well. We appreciate all you do for our local community ๐Ÿซถ

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays friends. May God bless all of us, our homes, our communities, and our families

๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ ๐ŸŽ„๐Ÿ’—๐ŸŒŸ

Day 2, 12/22/24: Workouts ๐Ÿ’ช and shopping ๐Ÿ›️ done today ✌️

Day 3,12/23/24: Gavin’s appetite is increasing significantly and so has his height and weight. At 14 years old he stands at 5’8 3/4. Gigi says all she sees me doing is cooking for him and I told her he’s going through a growth spurt and that I’ve seen this before when he was a baby. Big boy is getting bigger ๐Ÿ’ช

Rushed home ๐Ÿก from the gym to make sure my growing boy is fed right ๐Ÿ‘ Nothing beats home made๐Ÿ’—

Gigi on her way to a Christmas ๐ŸŽ„ potluck and gift exchange with friends. She personalized this gift bag by adding printed sticker photos of her friends.

Day 4, 12/24/24: Started a new Teenage Christmas Eve morning๐ŸŽ„ tradition at our house ๐Ÿก Home made breakfast of fresh biscuits, turkey, eggs, and of course, gravy to tie it all together. This year Gigi added to it and made chocolate ๐Ÿซ covered strawberries ๐Ÿ“. After we eat they open presents at the table with their Christmas reindeer beanies that light up ๐Ÿค“ It’s a beautiful ๐Ÿคฉ and simple tradition that can be added upon and made a little better each year. Fancy simple goes a long way ๐ŸŒŸ Happy Merry Christmas Eve friends ๐Ÿฅฐ May God continue to bless us all ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ

Day 5, 12/25/24: Merry Christmas Everyone ๐ŸŽ„๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ❤️๐ŸŽ Wishing you all good health, joy, success today and in the New Year ๐Ÿงš‍♀️๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’ซ✨๐Ÿซถ.

Gigi and her friend Cordell have been accountability buddies making creative content everyday this whole winter break and she shared a very happy poem she wrote yesterday that she said I could share here. Love it ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿงš‍♀️

My teenagers appeased me and allowed me to dress them how I envisioned. Thanks guys, besitos ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜
My mom was in a smiley let’s-take-pics this holiday season (not her baseline behavior btw lol ๐Ÿ˜‚.) It was very nice to see ๐Ÿ˜
This pose turned out great because the boys put us together like this. Probably one of our best holiday pics ๐Ÿ‘
Liz’s lemme-tickle-you-with-my-charm photographer skills ๐Ÿ“ธ really stepped up this year. She was very theatrical ๐ŸŽญ and made us laugh ๐Ÿ˜‚ even our mom.
It’s bout to go dowwwnnn
They grow so fast! I want to remember this ๐Ÿ“ธ
Christmasing with the fam
Our theme this year was red or green. Check out the green ๐ŸŒฒ crew ๐ŸŒŸ
Beautiful ๐Ÿคฉ Mamas and their new Babies
Cuzzoooos ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿซถ
Stylish mama ๐Ÿ’—
Got this let’s go dinosaur๐Ÿฆ• excavating kit and pretend we’re paleontologists for my nephew Lyle. My mission is to cultivate the nerdyliciousness ๐Ÿค“ early ๐Ÿค— on. It was **work** digging while he’s practicing his fine motor skills and focus. He’s like auntie, I should not give up right?! Yes honey hard work is totally ๐Ÿ’ฏ fun ๐Ÿคฉ

Day 6, 12/26/24: Teaching this super intelligent and handsome puppy ๐Ÿถ how to be calm around squirrels ๐Ÿฟ️ in the backyard. This is new for him ๐Ÿฅฐ

Day 7, 12/27/24: I gotta give it up to our family’s personal shopper / stylist๐ŸŽจ๐ŸŽญ๐Ÿ–Œ️๐Ÿ–ผ️ ๐Ÿ›️ for always upgrading us. I come into her styling parlor and come out a whole nother vibe. This black on black with gold zip down accent is a swanky Lululemon lounge fit from no other than my stylish Mama ๐ŸซถDakal Salamat pu keng kalungtagan yu๐Ÿ‘—๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’—๐ŸŒท๐ŸฅฐBuri ku pu ini a lot ๐Ÿ˜š๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜‰

Day 8,12/28/24: Good team hustle today ๐Ÿ‘ Proud of our guys ๐ŸŒŸ Keep working ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿ€⛹๐Ÿป❣️

Day 9,12/29/24: Happy ๐Ÿ˜Š Sunday ๐ŸŒทGigi and killed it at the gym today and she is getting some muscle ๐Ÿ’ช gains because she’s been consistently working out for about two months now. Check it:


While she did her own thing I hit the bags for some boxing and a nice gentle man I met before left so I can work on two bags vs one. I usually like hitting all the bags but today was a weekend so I had to share ๐Ÿ˜

After I did bag work I did a full body HIIT in the training area.

Afterwards, we had an impromptu Moms and Daughters hang out with Emma and her mom Amie who took us out to watch Moana 2. We had a blast and I L๐Ÿ’—VED Moana 2 actually more than the first and can’t wait to watch it again❣️

Thank you Emma and Amie for such a fun girl’s outing❣️

Day 10,12/30/24: I want Gavin and his team to continue growing to become stronger, more cohesive, accurate, and consistently good basketball ๐Ÿ€ players individually and together. The potential and the talent is definitely there❣️

Day 11,12/31/24: I listen to lectures throughout the day while doing low brain effort activities that require physical activity so that I can stay sharp because learning makes me really happy ๐Ÿ˜Š✨๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿฅณ

Like just now, I had to stop what I was doing to research two words I'd never heard of that I learned from Dr. Orion Tariban.

He is one of my fave docs because the way he explains and executes his lessons is like that of a scientist (precise) and an actor (engaging) as he is theatrically trained. I find the execution of his content compelling, fun to listen to, and absorbable ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿค“๐Ÿ‘

Here is the link of the episode that prompted this post and the two new words I learned from him are:

(1) "Lassitude," -noun and (2) "fungible," -adjective.

Let me apply my learning now by using them here so that I can make some more brain synapses that will create dopamine and make me smile ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Lassitude:

"In this last day of the year, I hope you leave behind states that debilitate you from moving forward, as this lassitude will not bring you closer to your goals."

Fungible

"May you have the kind of personality, work ethic, and personal affect that is not fungible as you are a compelling, beautiful, and competent human being that cannot easily be fungible."

Day 12, 1/1/25: Yoloooo ❣️Happy 1st ๐Ÿฅ‡ day of a brand spanking New Year. Like whhhuuuttttt it’s finally twenty twenty five ๐Ÿฅณ The kids and I finished the old year strong ๐Ÿ’ช and this energy continued and we put it out on this first day.

Slept in a bit and had a substantial Filipino breakfast of fish ๐ŸŸ, salted duck ๐Ÿฆ† egg, with tomatoes ๐Ÿ… and rice ๐Ÿš.

We trained in hills today and enjoyed a nature walk ⛰️ at Coyote Hills and a nice family gave us their parking ๐Ÿ…ฟ️ ticket as they were driving out. It was a cool exchange and I’m glad I had my window down and was paying attention ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿป‍♀️

I failed trying to do the same on our way out multiple times so now it’s a lil souvenir for the day ๐ŸŒท

I like the inclines here. Runnable so we did a little to train our bodies this natural way with varied terrain. 

My wolf ๐Ÿบ pack lol ๐Ÿ˜œ Woof ๐Ÿถ

Great vantage point and photo by Gigi.

Cumulus looking clouds add texture to photos. No rain so yay ๐ŸŒž

She got a good incline pic here ๐Ÿ‘

Kids and their Big Dawg ๐Ÿบ Great looking subjects that happen to be mine ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—

That was our warm up then hit the gym for all our own workouts. Gavin did a full body workout, Gigi trained legs, and I boxed and danced.

We did healthy stuff we all loved ๐Ÿฅฐ and now we’re waiting for our food so I’m blogging while killing time.

Our food is here so hasta la maรฑana amigos y amigas. Happy 2025๐Ÿฅณ

Day 13, 1/2/25: I love ๐Ÿ’• surprising strangers where they completely on their own, feel compelled to share their delight with me ✌️๐Ÿค“

Like today, I was walking to the building where my in person meetings were held and a random stranger walking the opposite direction loudly retorted:

“Oh. Mah. Gawwwd! You look damn goooood!”

lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ His shocked ๐Ÿ˜ณ verbal declaration made me internally chuckle, so I responded respectfully:

Thank you Sir. Happy New Year and have a wonderful day.”

Politeness is an old fashioned way of being that shows (1) self respect and (2) respect for others of which I think our fast paced modern world needs more of.

Doling this out is a good thing for society, in my humble opinion.

Day 14, 1/3/25: Stopped and enjoyed the murals today. Happy Friday ๐Ÿ’—

Day 15, 1/4/25: Waiting for our gym to open. Open open open ๐Ÿคณ ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿฆ†๐Ÿ’๐Ÿป‍♀️๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒท๐Ÿ’— Busy Saturday for us gotta get it in ✅

Done ✅

Sunk that ๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ—‘️⛹๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘

Strong ๐Ÿ’ช dudes

Thanks for coming to watch Gavin play Lyle๐Ÿ’ฏ

This one needs a Malatown Detox lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ She loves it here too much ๐Ÿ’•

Day 16, 1/5/25: We had a very good Sunday ๐Ÿ•Š️๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’—

Got in our workouts and wanted to focus on a long cardio session day.

Put in 8.5 miles on the bike ๐Ÿšฒ at the gym to get the heart pumping and blood flowing.

Took some measurements to get a baseline of where my body is currently so that I can keep building muscle and an overall leaner physique.


Also took advantage of the great weather today and got in a 2 city outdoor run ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป‍♀️ from our gym in Hayward and ran to Union Landing and back.

I was telling my brother Lyle how amazing it felt to be able to do an outdoor jog with minimal stopping and throw in some nice burst of short sprints as my body allowed me to do.

Hitting a sub 8 minute mile pace during my short sprints felt amazing and I am very grateful to feel my stamina and power in my running ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป‍♀️ slowly building up again ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’•

Later we hung out at my mom’s for food and family time. Little Lyle and Lenny are the cutest ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

And of course so is Mama’s Roawd dawg, Rosie ❣️

See y’all maรฑana ๐Ÿ•Š️✌️✨๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป‍♀️

Day 17, 1/6/25: We were all on our game today, from meal prepping, to school, work, workouts, and extracurricular activities etc.

Gavin’s team dominated tonight as they were the more accurate and defensively stronger team. It was exciting to see our boys push themselves from start to finish.


Gigi and team got to meet the former mayor of Union City through their volunteer work today. Many exciting positive projects are underway to empower the local youth.

Day 18, 1/7/25: Gorgeous day for some hill training today๐Ÿž️ ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป‍♀️✌️

Day 19, 1/8/25: I personally enjoy feeling like my own sunshine ๐ŸŒž so I vibe out in my stylist’s chair every few weeks to get ๐Ÿ’‡‍♀️ my hair done how I like it.

Color treated hair needs to taken cared of and babied ๐Ÿ‘ถ My stylist has instructed me how to do this and I’ve cultivated a day to day process to keep my crown ๐Ÿ‘ธ๐Ÿป vibrant, healthy, and growing ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒฑ๐ŸŒฟ๐Ÿ’—

See? That’s all natural ๐ŸŒฑ hair growth ๐Ÿ‘
Tanya does the bleaching process where it’s not bothersome to my scalp.I came prepared and meal prepped because it takes 3+ hours to get the whole system down pat ==> Set the bleach/process it/rinse it/set the toner/cook/rinse/trim/dry.
๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿป‍๐Ÿณ Cooking in the “oven”
Tada ๐ŸŽ‰ Shes done ✨๐Ÿ‘‘✌️๐ŸŒผ Thank you Tanya ๐ŸŒท

Invest ๐Ÿ“ˆ in your most valuable resource:

✨YOU๐Ÿ‘ธ๐Ÿป๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿž️๐Ÿ•Š️๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿป‍๐Ÿณ

Day 19, 1/9/25: Protect your peace my loves๐Ÿ’• ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ•Š️๐Ÿž️by protecting your attention and your time ๐Ÿ•ฐ️ Allow people to learn you and ignore what’s NOT moving your day forward. Stick to your plan and most of all WORK your plan.

The squat is not an exercise but a resting position. Modern humans think and move otherwise. Here I’m practicing strengthening the whole lower body system and toes ๐Ÿฉฐ for maximum “hang” time.

Hands, fingers, and limbs need to be activated daily or they’ll brittle and get weak. We don’t want that. Don’t skip the heavy bags if you don’t have gloves. Just go ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป‍♀️

Day 20, 1/10/25: Happy Aloha Friyay blogosphere ๐ŸŒŽ ๐Ÿ•Š️๐Ÿ™Œ✌️ Our meal ๐Ÿฅ˜ prep game is strong ๐Ÿ’ช baby๐Ÿ’— Have a blessed one everyone ๐Ÿ˜‡

Day 21, 1/11/25: I enjoy listening to humans smarter than me who have done their own work and are spreading that good around. Dr. Jordan B. Peterson is one of those humans ๐ŸŒŽ ๐Ÿ•Š️๐Ÿ™Œ✌️One of my favorite lessons from him is the following:

Day 22, 1/12/25: 10:57 am: Revving myself up for a three (3) city run/walk/jog today. The thought of it excites and scares me because I don't remember the last time I did this. My plan is to run to Costco so I will naturally hit Fremont, Union City, and Hayward. Then I will stop and eat. Then I will decide to Uber back or not. Baby steps. Be back to report how things went. Peace out ๐Ÿ•Š️๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคฉ

5:27 pm: I am currently (1) enjoying my “post race” meal ๐Ÿฝ️ that my son lovingly prepared for me (thanks honey you’re the best๐ŸŒท) (2) blogging in bed, and (3) responding to text messages. Yes, I thoroughly enjoy multitasking where it makes sense and don’t feel like a scattered mess lol ๐Ÿ˜†

Lets chat about todays long walk/run/jog before I forget all details tomorrow because these moments are fleeting and don’t need to be stored in long term memory other than the details I write ✍️ about here.

First city sign I hit up was Fremont at around 2.2 miles here’s proof.

I ran with Nike Air Max 270 lifestyle trainers ๐Ÿ‘Ÿ and they held up well. When I discovered these shoes I fell in love so I bought four pairs in the color combinations that I liked.

Next sign ๐ŸชงUnion City was only 4 minutes away, the second city which was a nice ๐Ÿ‘ and “easy” win lol ๐Ÿ˜† I mapped out this route so I get motivated early and keeps me motivated to keep going.

Getting to the third sign ๐Ÿชง post was not easy and felt like forever to get to Hayward at 5.21 miles.

Got a burst of energy when I got to my finish line ๐Ÿ at Costco at 5.87 miles so naturally I kept going ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป‍♀️

By 2:00 pm at 7.77 miles, I reached my lactic acid threshold and only walked from there and did occasional leg ups to distribute the lactic acid more evenly and not get “lead legs.”

Fatigue was slapping me around around the 9.92 mile mark and I almost stopped at the bus stop to take public transit or call an Uber but I pushed through. I was too close to double digit mileage all on my own human volition, without wheels, and on my feet ๐Ÿ‘ฃ so I decided not to be a sissy and stop.

Then I got another energy boost when I saw my home ๐Ÿก city sign at around 10.10 miles.

Almost home so was getting giddy so I wanted to remember this and took a pic ✌️


Clocked ⏰ in 11.73 non stop miles on foot ๐Ÿ‘ฃ at 3:33 pm and felt super accomplished ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ•Š️✍️๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป‍♀️

K. I’m done ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป‍♀️✅ See ya’ll maรฑana ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ‘ธ๐Ÿป๐ŸŒŽ✌️

Here are a few pages from Dr. Sheehan's book, The Essential Sheehan, that expresses this idea of play quite nicely:




And another excerpt that talks about two types of physical energy. One that is magical and playful and another that is mundane and obligatory.



With all that said I hope hope you get out there, connect with others, get moving, and find YOUR PLAY!!


Before long, you will find yourself invigorated and inspired once again.


Happy weekend friends!

Day 23, 1/13/25: 2:15 pm: Happy ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Monday. Hope your day is going well whatever time you are seeing this. For me, it’s another at the gym blogging post.

To aid my muscles in recovering yesterday, I took a hot salt bath ๐Ÿ›€ and rolled out with a foam roller. Today my legs felt good and nimble with minimal soreness. I want to keep the recovery on an upward trend ๐Ÿ“ˆ so I focused on mobility training and an active recovery type workout today. So far so good ๐Ÿ˜Š Thank you ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ God for all that my body can do๐Ÿ’—

Day 24, 1/14/25, 10:20 am. Show ๐ŸŽŸ️๐ŸŽชme your brave and I’ll show you mine. Go get it and conquer your day everyone๐Ÿ’ช๐ŸŒŸThat’s what I’m doing. Happy Tuesday ya’ll ๐Ÿค ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป‍♀️

Day 25, 1/15/25, 9:21 am Gavin and his team dominated yesterday against Newark. Great job guys ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘❤️☄️

Day 26,1/16/25 ๐Ÿ˜ƒ✌️๐Ÿ˜Š The basketball ๐Ÿ€ ninjas ๐Ÿฅท๐Ÿฝ handled business well today. Great job fellas ๐Ÿ‘

Day 27, 1/17/25 Bang ‼️ bang ‼️ watch out now. My cool a$$ doctor gave me a bunch of free contact lenses today so now I can see someone’s face clearly from one end of a Costco to another and read body language from far as well. I should really be a spy ๐Ÿ•ต️‍♀️ or long distance sniper *pew* x 2 ๐Ÿ”ซlol ๐Ÿ˜‚ Happy ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Aloha ๐ŸŒบ Friyay and MLK weekend everyone ๐ŸŒŸ Hope you enjoy it❣️

Day 28, 1/18/25 Sunset nature walk ๐ŸŒ… Happy Saturday ๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿถ๐Ÿพ

Day 29, 1/19/25 Off to an early and active start for all us today. Gavin had basketball training, I worked on mobility / dance choreography, and Gigi placed in her speech tournament. Happy blessed ๐Ÿ˜‡ Sunday friends ๐Ÿ’•

I counted 18 instances of roaring audience laughter and 3 tender “aww” tender hearted moments of connection. The dynamic duo of Gigi and Noah most definitely delighted audiences with their performance tonight. Congratulations and well done you two ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

Day 30, 1/20/25 Happy MLK day everyone. I hope you keep blossoming wherever you are planted ๐Ÿชด๐ŸŒฑ๐ŸŒป๐ŸŒท

My mom and I were delighted to see these blossoms because these plants have moved with her and my dad, have been replanted numerous times, and this is the first time they are blossoming. Bellรญsima ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’—

I went to Dale hardware today and found it to be a breath of fresh air compared to the other, bigger tool stores.

First, it’s closer to home and so much more digestible aesthetically in how it is organized. I bought what I needed and was greeted with helpful and knowledgeable employees. (I’m never going back to the other places from now on.)

Anyhow, today I taught myself how to uninstall burnt out overhead light fixtures in my kitchen and replace them with newer LED fixtures without YouTube and did it the old fashioned way of trial and error. I am so freaking proud of myself because this task was super duper not easy !! I am sure my old man ๐Ÿ‘ด๐Ÿฝ in heaven was with me because I had a lucid dream of him last night helping me babysit my future grand children like he did with his own grandchildren when he was alive. Thank you Papa๐ŸŒท Now I can add this to my resume lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ Be blessed and loved ๐Ÿฅฐ ya’ll. See you maรฑana ✌️

Tada ๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿคจ๐Ÿ’ช I fixed my own lights๐Ÿ’ก

Day 31, 1/21/25 I love grappling with ideas ๐Ÿ’ก and ways of living to become a better human. I believe whatever I can learn and embody, the better off my children and bloodline will be because they will have in their own home a living and breathing example of a happy, productive, positive, and God-loving mother. Living in this manner fuels me and is one of the greatest purposes of my life. My prayer this year is to gain more wisdom and understanding in everyday moments as they unfold.

Proverbs 4: 1-9 is one of my favorite verses because there’s a lot packed in there and it’s not superfluous or random.

Like today I had to dig, define, reflect, and write about this✍️.

So, based on the above definitions wisdom is an ability that fuses information of all kinds (technical, sensory, intuitive, and experiencial) that come together in a way that the action that is taken is of the highest and best outcome based on that ability.

One definition of understanding could then be the ability to decipher how all these disparate pieces come come together from start to finish adding each element at the right time and in the right quantity.

That’s all from me today๐Ÿ’•Thank you for reading and have a wonderful day๐ŸŒž

Day 32, 1/22/25 I decided to break up with Bread ๐Ÿž yesterday ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿคจ Last month it was IG + FB. This is not a forever thing ♾️but it’s what’s necessary and on the chopping block this month๐Ÿ”ชI hope you are doing hard things and crushing it ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ž LFG๐Ÿ˜˜✌️

Day 33, 1/23/25 I love leather ๐Ÿฅฐ That’s all ๐Ÿ˜ Have a snappy day๐Ÿซฐ

Day 34, 1/24/25 It was a very productive and positive week. Work projects and home projects progressing at a good clip and kids doing well in school and their chosen activities. Have a wonderful weekend everyone ๐ŸŒท๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŒž๐Ÿ’ž


Day 35, 1/25/25 I met this beautiful entrepreneurial family (Grama, mom, & kids) selling children’s books ๐Ÿ“š and hard bound journals ๐Ÿ“’ at Logan’s MLK Competition last week. All their products were well made and aesthetically pleasing. Since I’ve been looking around for a hard bound food journal since last year ๐Ÿ“” I was overjoyed ๐Ÿ˜ to find one๐Ÿ’˜ I got their contact so I will be a repeat customer of theirs for sure ๐Ÿ‘ Here’s a pic of it and No,I’m not sharing what I write ✍️ in there (duh ๐Ÿ™„) because that’s my business ๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿป‍๐Ÿ’ผ not yours lol ๐Ÿ˜†✌️๐Ÿ˜œ Good news is ๐Ÿ“ฐ by using it I did drop 4 pounds easy..say whhaaaattt๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰Woot woot ๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿคธto not getting fat ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜**hugs** ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

Day 36, 1/26/25 I ๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿป‍♀️ am learning how to fix and repair small things ๐Ÿ”จ around my house ๐Ÿก and today I fixed a broken arm of a kitchen drawer that had been broken for years. I put my leather motorcycle ๐Ÿ️ gloves on for maximum grip and popped that bad boy in place like a broken elbow. The drawer is functional now๐Ÿ’ช Just call me Miss Fixes-a-lot ๐Ÿ˜Ž Happy ๐Ÿ˜Š Sunday, have a blessed one ๐Ÿ˜‡

Off the rail living is not good for an arm drawerIt was stubborn and fought back but I popped it back in. Now its back to its purpose to serve its proper role now ๐ŸŽฏShe did that ⬆️✔️๐Ÿ’…๐ŸŽ€

Day 37, 1/27/25 Waddup, waddup. Happy Monday❣️This cute employee at Costco was like “Aren’t you cold? I was like, “No, I just came from the gym and I’m still hot.” They’re like, “PERIOD!” Lmao ๐Ÿ˜‚ These young bucks. Gotta love ‘em and their young buck talk ๐ŸŽ

Speaking of young bucks ๐Ÿด๐Ÿด, here are recent pics of mine ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

Gigi got the golden ๐Ÿ”‘ for semi-finaling and finaling in her speech competitions this weekend.Gavin gaining more strength ๐Ÿ’ช and competence ๐Ÿ€ in his chosen activity.

The kids and I are on this winning mindset and we want our loved ones to catch it so TAG you’re it ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ˜˜

Get itttttttttttt ๐ŸŽฏ๐ŸŽฏ๐ŸŽฏ

Day 38, 1/28/25 Ratatataatttaat ๐ŸฅŠTat tat ๐ŸฅŠ๐ŸฅŠ๐ŸฅŠ Love making them dance ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ•บ๐ŸปThrow your weight around and show them who’s in charge ๐Ÿ’ช ok? Para mi? Por favor ๐Ÿค— See ya maรฑana๐ŸŒž Grrr ๐Ÿฆ✌️lol

Day 38, 1/29/25 Your favorite hybrid Asian firecracker ๐Ÿงจ wishes you a Happy Lunar Year ๐Ÿงง Peace ✌️ Love ❤️ and Blessings ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ

Breaking news 6:53 pm๐Ÿ“ฐ: Logan Men’s Basketball ๐Ÿ€ beat Moreau (again) babbbyyy❣️Well done FELLAS. That was a hell of a game ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ€✌️❤️

Day 39, 1/30/25 Very nice family dinner with the kids and my mom.

Day 40, 1/31/25 Early start for a busy weekend for us. Happy ๐Ÿ˜Š Friday everyone❣️Hope you are doing what you love ๐Ÿ’•

Day 41, 2/1/25 Happy 1st ๐Ÿฅ‡ day of this second month of 2025 ๐Ÿ’• I love taking stock of my wins and accomplishments at the end and beginning of the month to access where I’ve been, where I am, and where I am going ๐Ÿ—บ️

Yesterday, my trainer measured me and I am happy to report ๐Ÿ“ฐ that my body composition is positively changing in that I have dropped 3% of body fat which means I have been consistently building more muscle ๐Ÿ’ช I was so happy ๐Ÿฅฐ I literally was jumping up and down because I did indulge ๐Ÿ™ˆin rich foods over the holidays so to hear this was music to my ears.

With that said, I invite you to continue reaching for your goals and build positive things in your life that yield positive returns ๐Ÿ“ˆ Muscle ๐Ÿ’ช is ๐Ÿ’ฏ one of my favorite assets because it makes the whole human system function better and is only gained through hard work and consistency.

We got this❣️Let’s get to it ๐ŸŽฏ

Heavy things are our friends ๐Ÿ’› Working with them makes us stronger, faster, and better ๐ŸŒป

Day 42, 2/2/25 Happy Sunday Lovelies❣️I went shopping ๐Ÿ›️ with my mom and aunt today and found the BEST new hair accessory ever. It’s like eyelashes but for your crown ๐Ÿ‘‘

I wanted to create a balayage undertone so I opted for these invisible extensions that are secured with a single band that almost feels like a flexible fishing ๐ŸŽฃ line (very easy, comfortable, w/ no clips or strips).

Alternatively, a popular brand called halo ๐Ÿ˜‡ is priced at $212 a box and these ones I found are a whopping $49 a box๐Ÿ’•Also, I gave them a trim to layer with my natural length and bam ๐Ÿ’ฅ I got a Ginger Blonde Balayage Upgrade ❤️‍๐Ÿ”ฅ ๐Ÿ’‡‍♀️This is a total hair hack and an easy way to glam up any crown ๐Ÿ‘ธ๐Ÿป

Check it:


Day 43, 2/3/25 Happy 1st ๐Ÿฅ‡Monday to you. Jumping on the early morning train ๐ŸšŠ to get our 5 am fasted gym sessions this week ๐Ÿ—“️ Thank you James for inspiring us, and Sharon for kicking my butt ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐ŸฅŠ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป

On a side note ๐Ÿ“ this good boy ๐Ÿถ says hi ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿฝ everyone have a wonderful day ๐Ÿ’

See ya’ll maรฑana๐Ÿ’•

Day 44, 2/4/25. Day 2 of 5 am’ers. Goal is 5 this week. It’s been a nice challenge to my gym routine to get my fasted cardio/HIIT done, start my day earlier, and max out daylight hours. On days I have personal training, I come in twice a day. So far, I’m ok with this added load because my sleep ๐Ÿ˜ด is locked in ๐Ÿฅฐ Be healthy and well friends๐ŸŒป

Day 45, 2/5/25. Good morning ๐ŸŒž Let’s make it a good one ☝️ Day 3 of 5 am’ers done ✅

Protein packed lunch ๐Ÿฅ— hack thanks to In-n-Out and a little planning. That’s my favorite packaged salad at $3.49 per bag. Those are fresh plain (no salt) beef patties for dogs *woof* ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ˜† At $1.50 per patty this is about 2 meals for me✌️This high protein, high veggie yield is a hack because it is fresh, on the go, healthy, and priced well at $9.24 (($3.49+$15) ➗2) per meal. Here’s to eating well while out n about ๐Ÿซถ

Kids say hey ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿฝ

Day 46, 2/6/25. Good morning๐ŸŒž Day 4 of 5 5 am’ers in the bag ๐Ÿ’ผ Have a wonderful day ๐Ÿ’•

Day 47, 2/7/25. Good morning๐ŸŒž Day 5 of 5, 5 am’ers are done'zo! I'm gonna try and pass along what I did today because it was a very well balanced power workout that I was able to do fasted first thing in the morning at around 5:10 am.

Warm up:

I found this to be necessary because I didn't have any caffeine in me so I had to produce energy on my own by moving my body. 15 minutes did the job and I was able to move along nicely onto the main segment.

Power HIIT: (main segment)

So I added the word Power because there are strength training elements in this HIIT workout I normally don't do together but was compelled to because I wanted to feel that muscle PUMP! lol ;-) Here are pics and I will do my best to explain the sequence I did them.

1. Bridge exercise w/ the battle ropes. Take the ropes by hand, use leverage, and bend over backwards as far you can with the goal of touching your head to the ground making a "bridge" with your body. I absolutely love this move and touching the ground with my head feels like a "touchdown" lololol.

2. Battle it out with the ropes. I like full extension whips up and down for 20 reps.

3. Take the dumbells and do walking lunges toward the strong board and leave them there. 10 reps

4. Align yourself optimally atop the big red ball and do push ups while keeping your balance. 10 reps

5. Take those dumbells and do weighted punches with them while walking them over and bringing them to your starting point. 10 reps

6. Get on the other strongboard while balancing yourself with a 15 lb medicine ball near the TRX structure. Use one arm to carry the medicine ball, while the other arm you are using to get on the strongboard in a balanced manner. Now do deep squats while holding the medicine ball close to your core. Inhale while you go down on the deep squat and exhale while pushing the medicine ball out perpendicular to the ground, then back to starting position, all while maintaining your balance on the strongboard. 10 reps

7. Do RDLs. Two 35 lb plates on the bar. Cleanly with good form. 8 reps

8. Do basic swings w/ 35 lb kettlebell. Cleanly with good form. 10 reps

9. Hip thrusts the old fashioned way. You'll need to use a bolted down bench, bar, two 45 lb plates. Don't do this if you've not been properly trained to do it. My trainer taught me how to do this properly and ppl glance over and look at me like yo wtf is she doing? lol This is an advanced movement in the setting up of it, the doing it, and the breaking down of it. It's heavier work, unassisted, unlike the Smith machine lol 

10. Last one. Find a squat rack. Load it up with a good weight for you. I did two 25 lb plates. Go for 10 reps with good form. That's it.


Cool down:

Walk slow, wash up, and freshen up lol ;-) Congratulate yourself for kicking your own a$$!

Day 48, 2/8/25. Happy Saturday ๐Ÿ’ This guy is learning self soothing skills while Gigi and Noah rehearse loudly lol ๐Ÿ˜† He’s so cute ๐Ÿฅฐ even if he’s a little stressed out ๐Ÿ˜‚ Puppy ๐Ÿถ gotta grow and learn ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿพ

Day 49, 2/9/25. Happy Sunday ๐ŸŒž Found this cute guy on our lawn today.

I found out he’s a runner ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿฝ so I had to lure him with turkey.



He loved it so I was able to put a leash on him and we walked the neighborhood to find his home ๐Ÿก 



Went door to door and found his mom who was very relieved to see him ๐Ÿฅฐ Have a wonderful upcoming week everyone ๐Ÿ’•


Day 50, 2/10/25. Wow it’s already halfway through this project. This Monday was a good and full one. Pics I wanna remember today:

Day 51, 2/11/25. Happy Tuesday ❣️Gavin passed along this great candid team shot to me. Let’s go Colts ❤️๐Ÿด๐Ÿค

Day 52, 2/12/25. Good morning sunshines ๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒž Let’s make it a good ๐Ÿ‘ one ๐Ÿ’

2:37 pm

Guys. Let's have a lil mid day chat ๐Ÿ’ฌ

I was at the Safeway parking lot, looked to my right, and saw a firetruck. As I approached the store not one but three fire fighters greeted me hello like they knew me. Very amicably and one of them engaged in good natured banter with me.

He was like, "Miss how tall do you think I am?

I had to stop because he asked an honest question and wanted my opinion. I placed myself squarely in front of him, looked him up and down, and said "five foot ten."

The two other fire fighters oooooo'd and said, "she's gooood!"

The five foot ten guy was like "the lady in there said I look six foot."

To that I looked him in the eyes and said, "Nope, but you're still cute. Have a nice day fellas."

2/12 Lesson of the day: Leave people better than they found you. That way you'll leave a positive imprint that they can carry around with them :-)

Day 53, 2/13/25. Getting hammered with lots of rain ☔️ today. Gigi and forensics team got to Boston safely for a speech tournament and Gavin’s team won their basketball game yesterday. Also, our cheerleaders ๐Ÿ“ฃ are talented and delightful to watch. Great ๐Ÿ‘ job across the board Logan๐Ÿ‘ Proud of you all and be safe everyone ❣️๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ❤️✨

Day 54, 2/14/25. My kids don’t know this but I have purposely and positively been molding them since they were born not to become my mini me’s but rather to become what God is calling them to be.

A formative experience I gave them was when they were attending elementary school at Forest Park. I took my passion for fitness and family and put it into a fun after school program we taught together for three years. This had multi beneficial social and emotional learning for them.

They learned how to be comfortable being in the spotlight and in servant-leadership roles. They learned how to positively interface with all members in our school community. And they also learned that being positively engaged in their own lives is the only path toward success.

All that said, here are some fun blast from the past pics from our Family Fitness Classes we taught together. I called the class “fitness” but they were actually choreographed dance classes with a fitness twist.

Our vibe was not Zumba and definitely cooler ๐Ÿ˜Ž because they were popular classes with the kids. As an instructor, my goal for the children was to give them the skills and confidence to move their bodies in joyful ways to music. ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿฉฐ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘Ÿ

My hope is that you teach your loved ones to serve with their talents and watch them shine๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿคฉ Happy Valentine’s Day my Loves ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’• Enjoy your day๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

Here’s the original post from 10 years ago

https://thepassionateheroine.blogspot.com/2015/10/family-fitness.html

Day 55, 2/15/25 Worked out early with the crew today and had a nice team breakfast after๐ŸŒHope you all get your workouts in with the people you enjoy ✌️

Day 56, 2/16/25 Happy ๐Ÿ˜Š Lord’s Day ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿป๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป

Day 57, 2/17/25 Mondays seem to have a way of sneaking up on me and smacking me around ๐Ÿ™„ I just smack back harder and keep chugging along like a bullet train ๐Ÿš… Have a good week everyone ๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ’ซ✨๐ŸŒŸ

20 mins boxing ๐ŸฅŠ drills + 20 mins across the floor dancing ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป drills

20 min HIIT

100 incline sit ups w/ 25 pound plate. I expect to be sore tomorrow

Day 58, 2/18/25 Good morning ๐ŸŒ Not sore so came back for more. Plus timing ⏱️ matters cuz that fasted first thing in the morning cardio pump hits different and sets the tone for day. Gonna come back for personal training later so gonna squeeze stuff in between now and then. Have a positive + productive day everyone ๐Ÿ’˜

Day 59, 2/19/25 This little blog of mine is hitting places like Germany ๐Ÿ‡ฉ๐Ÿ‡ช Iran ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ท France ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท Singapore ๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿ‡ฌ Austria ๐Ÿ‡ฆ๐Ÿ‡น Hong Kong ๐Ÿ‡ญ๐Ÿ‡ฐ Mexico ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡ฝ Russia ๐Ÿ‡ท๐Ÿ‡บ China ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ณ United Kingdom ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง and of course my good ole’ USA ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ. My workout ๐Ÿ‹️ log ๐Ÿ“” and I say hello ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿฝ fellow world ๐ŸŒŽ travelers ๐Ÿงณ Sending love ๐Ÿ’• light ๐ŸŒŸ and strength ๐Ÿ’˜your way✨๐Ÿ’ซ๐Ÿ˜Š✨๐Ÿ’ซ today and everyday✌️

Day 60, 2/20/25, Happy Thursday❣️

”In dreams and love there are no impossibilities.”

- Janos Arany, Hungarian Poet

Therefore, we should dream big๐Ÿ’ญ๐Ÿ’ญ๐Ÿ’ญand love bigger ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’“

Day 61, 2/21/25, I love running into this fit grandpa ๐Ÿ‘ด๐Ÿฝ who parks, gets out his car, drops off his teenage grand kids, kisses them on the top of their heads, and rounds up his 2-3 dogs for a pack walk ๐Ÿบ at the nearby park. Now that’s love ๐Ÿ’› Hope your weekend is filled with it ❣️

6:07 pm

We had great weather ๐ŸŒž today so I maxed out on sunlight and made three van trips to St. Vincent de Paul to drop off useable donations. 

No gym lifting today but real life power lifting for like 5 hours lol ๐Ÿคฃ Nothing invites Spring like Spring decluttering and cleaning ๐Ÿงค๐Ÿงผ๐Ÿš ๐Ÿ“ฆ ๐Ÿชฃ

I like this manual laborer side of me lmao ๐Ÿ˜œ This counts as exercise for sure ๐Ÿ‘

Day 62, 2/22/25, Finally the proud owner of a tall ladder ๐Ÿชœ๐ŸŒŸWith it I can fix more things like replace overhead lights in the garage like I did today. Got more donations donated too. It’s a home improvement kinda day ๐Ÿงฐ๐Ÿก๐Ÿ“ฆ

Day 63, 2/23/25, we say heaayyy ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿฝ

Day 64, 2/24/25, Happy Monday ๐Ÿฅฐ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿณ๐Ÿ’ป

Day 65, 2/25/25, striving for consistency is both grounding and invigorating ๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿป‍♀️ Have a wonderful day๐Ÿ’–

4:01 pm

Letting go feels sooooo goood ๐Ÿ’—It’s like losing weight ✅ 5th drop off to date ๐Ÿ“… Gonna do this 5 days this week until I’m at my goal ๐ŸŽฏ

Day 66, 2/26/25, Getting some sunnnn ๐ŸŒž Yeeeeee ๐Ÿ˜Ž Have a wonderful day sunshines ๐Ÿ’–

6th van load drop off donations to date. May cause spontaneous giggling ๐Ÿคญ from being so proud of yourself ๐Ÿ‘ Or that’s just me lmao ๐Ÿ˜‚

See ya’ll maรฑana ๐Ÿ•Š️

Day 67, 2/27/25, Playtime ๐Ÿพ ๐Ÿถ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿถ

6th donation drop off ๐Ÿ‘

Day 68, 2/28/25,

**New thing to the blog**Today will be known as Happy Lenny Day (aka Friday!)

Lenny Kravitz is a gift ๐ŸŽ to humanity ๐ŸŒŽ because his music is uplifting, inspiring, and he is age-defyingly-fiiyynnee๐Ÿ”ฅ(He’s 60 years old.)

I’ve been a fan forever and a song of his I just recently discovered, “Human”, is new fuel for my motivation gas tank⛽️ (2024).

Presenting, Mr. Sexaaayyy Lennaaayyy below Hayyyyee ๐Ÿคฉ


Here’s my tried and true, positively taste tested playlist that will get you moving ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป, feeling confident ๐Ÿ’–, bopping your head๐Ÿถ, and welcoming the weekend ahead ๐ŸŽธ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ’ช๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ‘

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0eRrxjSq2TqbxTf3s30VPF?si=Sqw55K7xTya8VjyKiXn3yQ&pi=0adz0fSHThyAd

Day 69, 3/1/25

Simple joys are my jam ๐ŸŽธ

Creating love is an act of grace ๐Ÿ•Š️and expanding it outward is a blessing ๐Ÿ’—

This is how wholesomeness heals, from the inside out ❤️๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒŽ๐Ÿ’Ÿ

Happy Saturday❣️

Day 70, 3/2/25

Grow good fruit ๐ŸŠ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ‡ Happy Sunday ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ

Day 71, 3/3/25. Starting the week off strong ๐Ÿ’ช Happy Monday ๐Ÿค—

Day 72, 3/4/25. Gettin it like I doooooo๐Ÿ‘ Not gonna stop. Happy Tuesday ๐ŸŽธ

Day 73, 3/5/25. Surf’s ๐Ÿ„๐Ÿป‍♀️ up. Happy ๐Ÿ˜Š Wednesday guys ๐Ÿฅฐ

Day 74, 3/6/25. Just call me Harley ๐Ÿ’— today.

Gonna run to the local Foodland to hopefully find the exotic food thing I’m looking for.

Packed up my gear and got fueled ⛽️ up for this adventure on foot ๐Ÿฆถ with shoes ๐Ÿ‘Ÿ lol ๐Ÿ˜†

Happy Thursday mi gente ❤️

Day 75, 3/7/25 Adventuring ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ„๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒผ

Day 76, 3/8/25 Be like the sun ๐ŸŒž and share your light wherever you go ๐Ÿงณ Happy Saturday ๐ŸŒผ

Focus on the good so it grows ๐ŸŒฑand have a charmed & blessed day friends ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐ŸŒท✨๐Ÿ“ˆ๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿป‍๐Ÿ’ป