Honor Your Truth

Punch 🥊 straight

Let me tell you something I have learned first hand as a woman who shoots straight in everything she does.

When people dishonor you (because they will, or at least try to) don't get mad, get cerebral. Dishonor only happens when you allow people's unregulated behavior to penetrate you.

What they are actually showing is a lack of personal power in a heavy show of emotionality either in covert / overt manipulation, rage, anger, or heavy frustration. The energy behind these emotions will be power-tripping and that insatiable hunger for control. 

Again, get cerebral.

And whatever you do DO NOT give them the fight they want because that shows you actually give a hoot. Don't hoot back. 

Shoot back with your truth as succicintly as possible. If you do not know how to be succinct then you're too pissed to think straight. Shoot straight and direct. Like a properly delivered punch. Why would you ever punch crooked and hurt your arm or wrist? That's super dumb. When you're facing something attempting to rob your peace, just bop em' straight, direct, and fiercely with your punch = your truth (figuratively).

When the dust settles, you can sit back in your Lazy Boy chair, and hear about them imploding on themselves **again** (per usual.)

Get cerebral.

"You're better than them, baby." as my Papa would say.

Burgers 🍔 Millie Style ==> The Meatless Burger 🍔 Review

I loooooooooovvveee burgers 🍔 so much they are actually the only meat-thing I crave after going meat-less and pescatarian 🐠 since March 2026.

I love how clean and balanced I feel from this nutritional decision I have no reason to add hormones via ingesting meat etc.

So here goes my reviews:

(1) Best one I have had is from The Melt, a burger 🍔 joint in Palo Alto, California. Gigi took me there and I went bonkers.

Embarrassingly, they were so good after I ate my first impossible burger 🍔 I was compelled to buy a second with a fried egg 🍳to make sure I wasn’t trippin. And no I wasn’t trippin because that second burger was even better than the first because I tweaked it to perfection based on my first one lol 🤤 🙈 💯👌

Grade: 12 /10. Dangerously ‼️ Good 👍 Don’t order fries anymore, just get two 2️⃣ burgers lol 😂 

(2) I’m not trynna clown 🤡 but in comparison I ate this impossible burger 🍔 from Raw Superfoods in Fremont and the saving grace was the “banh mi concept” and fresh bread 🍞 The meatless burger patty itself was dry as/F. I got super spoiled with the juicy one from The Melt my taste buds are now snotty. Not sure if that’s a good thing 🧐

Grade: 7 /10. Meh 😒 ish. Fresh and tasty the faux beef patty was dry as/F. Boo 😒 

(3) The next one I had was a jackfruit and bean 🫘 burger 🍔 patty at Stanford. This was very good, wholesome, and healthy. Since this was a sandwich 🥪 it was a little dinky-ish in the bread department but I liked how I was not triggered to eat a second because the kitchen closed lol 😂 

Grade: 9 /10. It was good but I think the sandwich bread made it un-sexy, just my personal preference. 

Hand written sentiments

There is nothing I enjoy more than giving and receiving hand written sentiments (cards & letters).

Teaching them young to learn to make their own hand written cards 💘😚😊💘

Happy blast from the past. Another old post I found in drafts 📂💎🕊️🌟

Rough day remedies

1.) Make a funny face to make someone laugh..you probably will too!

2.) Watch cartoons 😆

3.) Hug someone! 🤗 

4.) Pretend you are a caped  superhero that can do anything! 🦸🏻🦸🏻‍♀️

          

5.) Treat yourself to something sweet:             

Another blast 💥 from the past in the drafts section from 2012 that just got published 🫶😚📁💎💓🌟

Museum day

January 2012:

I had the best time with my little man today. What was supposed to be a family trip ended up only half of us going due to Gigi having a cold & stomach-related issues. Boo!

As Gavin and I were driving in the city, I already could tell our day was going to be great. It was sunny and there was no need for our jackets..in January?! SCORE! :)

Museum Report: The Asian Museum

Asian Museum Outing February 2012

**P.S.**

• This is a late post from February 2012. I couldn’t figure out how to change the orientation of the photos into portrait mode because the photos were taken in an old phone and this post stayed in “drafts”. Gonna tinker with this and see if I can fix this 14 years later lol 😂 - 10/27/26 update: (1)Finally fixed via the mobile application. Saved photo, changed orientation on iPhone, uploaded fixed photos from 2012. Yay 😁 ✅ 🫶 🐶
  

My dysfunctional blood line

Listen here 🎧 

​When heavy and undiagnosed dysfunction lives in a family bloodline, the one attempting to break free will always stand out, and trigger everyone especially the one at the top.

Funny thing is I stopped caring about other people’s expectations of me because of their own internalized toxicity and emotional heaviness that is not mine. 

I will never be anyone’s emotional dumping ground for their own unprocessed trauma and toxicity that has a clear/obvious recurring cyclical nature eating away at their sanity and overall health.

Moreover, repeated displays of relationship-eroding behavior such as bad-mouthing, gossip, envy, duplicity, and misappropriated anger I will never accept.

The blood 🩸 coursing in our veins may be 99.9% the same but I will take the 0.1% that is different and run with it.

Declaratively speaking, I choose none of you because I choose peace, personal integrity, self respect, and most importantly an aligned relationship with God.

Please do you, without me, forever.

I will certainly do me.

Respectfully. Me.