Wednesday, August 26, 2026

My dysfunctional blood line

​When heavy and undiagnosed dysfunction lives in a family bloodline, the one attempting to break free will always stand out, and trigger everyone especially the one at the top.

Funny thing is I stopped caring about other people’s expectations of me because of their own internalized toxicity and emotional heaviness that is not mine. 

I will never be anyone’s emotional dumping ground for their own unprocessed trauma and toxicity that has a clear/obvious recurring cyclical nature eating away at their sanity and overall health.

Moreover, repeated displays of relationship-eroding behavior such as bad-mouthing, gossip, envy, duplicity, and misappropriated anger I will never accept.

The blood 🩸 coursing in our veins may be 99.9% the same but I will take the 0.1% that is different and run with it.

Declaratively speaking, I choose none of you to be in my life because I choose peace, personal integrity, self respect, and most importantly an aligned relationship with God.

Please do you, without me, forever.

I will certainly do me.

Respectfully. Me.

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